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We recently met Dr Sarah Fogharty, who was running a study on the benefits of massage for mums and non-binary birthing parents after stillbirth. She kindly provided us with an amazing list of the mass...

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Ways to remember your loved ones

Christmas can be an even more challenging time of the year than other important occasions. On your child’s birthday or anniversary, the spotlight is on them, and while sadness is natural, Chr...

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Always Your Child

This volume provides guidance, support and wisdom for those who have lost a child. There is honest recognition of their grief and pain,and of the tragedy inherent in such loss.

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Choices in Arranging a Child’s Funeral

The funeral is the last physical act of caring for your child. It is a time, amid profound grief, when you can acknowledge your child and the meaning your child’s life holds for you and your family.

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Sudden Unexpected Death in Childhood

The death of a child is like no other death – it has been described as the ‘ultimate loss’, a loss of hopes and dreams, a loss of part of oneself as a parent, the loss of a role and purpose in society, a loss of a future with your child. This grief is not only painful, but profoundly disorienting – children are not supposed to die.

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